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February 27, 2010 at 6:21 pm
Although legally and biblically it is still adultery, sometimes people are left with no choice.
February 27, 2010 at 6:23 pm
Hmmmmm, depends on that persons moral values and whether they stick to them or not.
February 27, 2010 at 6:23 pm
So is it wrong but people do it because the have to or is it right because people have no choice? lol. Not being a pest…just tryna get to it!
February 27, 2010 at 6:24 pm
People do it because they get weak between the legs….
February 27, 2010 at 6:25 pm
so is it wrong? lol
February 27, 2010 at 6:26 pm
I dont think its so much of the weakness in between the legs. You have to look at different things the type of marriage that they had wether there was abuse, adultery,etc. I really dont think that you should put your life on hold. Because alot of times people get married and for whatever reason it dont work want out and cant afford it so they move on. Is it right NO!
February 27, 2010 at 6:27 pm
Yes V, I’d be lying if I said no.
February 27, 2010 at 6:28 pm
V…..having dealt with married women , I will say that you should wait. If you date & then get serious, how fair is it for the un-wed to have to wait cuz their mate is still married. Close one door before opening another. Morally it’s not right but even legally only those married reap the true benefits of being married, not someone seperated who … See Moreis dating. In the end if you date someone who is married, from personal experience I know that the issue of what’s not resolved will come up at one point or another so all you end up with is stolen moments & even possibly drama
February 27, 2010 at 6:29 pm
YES!@ Dawn. You know it scares me how many people are going through this…I get these types of questions more than anything and you know me homie…my advice is always very blunt…the truth doesn’t change just because you don’t like it. I have been married before and I KNOW that there are many gray areas while going through a divorce…the “… See Morecoast is clear” only when the papers are signed but I sympathize with people who just cant wait to get out there and experience new things. I was one of those people and I dont regret it…lol. But it is a dangerous game to play and there are too many single people out there to get involved with someone who is needy, confused and somewhat deceptive about their marital status…
February 27, 2010 at 6:30 pm
I’m going to speak from personal experience and personal choice. I left a marriage because of harsh reasons, however I disrespected what and how God would have had me to do things. People just throw around the ” our flesh is weak” statement way to often to just some how make what they did ok. But as said before God’s supreme excellence does not … See Moreexcuse our lack of feelings and emotions, our lack of interest or concern for others. Meaning He doesn’t really care about how we’er feeling when we decide to do wrong. He just cares that we can be faithful in our word to Him.
February 27, 2010 at 6:31 pm
never leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one you love….
February 27, 2010 at 6:31 pm
I don’t believe people should seriously enter into a relationship with someone else until the are completely free–in mind and on paper…lol. There is usually too much drama involved emotionally–as an individual and also as a married couple to even think of getting involved with someone else on a serious level….. a transitional person??? maybe… See More….??? but I’m not even sure about that—too many complications… It’s best to be free in my opinion–free with divorce papers signed and in hand…lol.
February 27, 2010 at 6:32 pm
The only other thing I will say is that if we are to quote the Bible…or “gods word” then we must be specific..because in my eyes “and I am not god” once the marraige has been officially defiled, it is over. After that, it’s just a matter of paperwork. I think the people that really cause the most dammage are the folks who leave a marraige or … See Morestart dating when they REALLY are not clear on whether or not they really want to do so. There is a lot of gray area here and for those of us who stayed in a marraige long after it was dead…I am sure that we can relate to the idea of moving on before those papers are signed. Just keeping it real. But that is just my opinion…and either way I will admit that it is a dangerous move and probably not the wisest…but it happens..
February 27, 2010 at 6:33 pm
@V…..I think single people who run across people who are married, it’s not the neediness you get attached too but the compassion for what a person is going through, which is in alignment with your sayin you have a heart for those who have to leave their marriages for tumultous reasons. I showed compassion and got caught up when I should’ve let … See MoreGod comfort the woman I sought, and let God help her reach resolve. I learned a hard lesson & so did she but we are healed now.
what was wrong is now right because by His stripes we are healed
@LaCherryon……”speak though as if they were”…translation: speak in a ‘tense’ so certain that it appears all that is being desired from God has already come to pass
February 27, 2010 at 6:35 pm
V, u started this for someone else, but it ended up being what I needed. Thanks guys
February 27, 2010 at 6:35 pm
@LaCherryon…you got it lady…you won’t believe how many people think I am posting their personal business…lol. But we are here to help each other…seriously..thats why i do this. I could just make statements all the time but that isn’t fair and doesn’t give people as much of a chance to weigh in…
February 27, 2010 at 6:36 pm
Haven’t been there myself but of course I know those who have Vernicia and for the most part…you are right..people are human…and that’s a vulnerable time for both partners I would think…. Like you–I think it’s just a huge GRAY area—too dangerous/risky emotionally–for all involved–so it’s best to not get seriously involved with anyone … See Morefor all involved….
However, I can also see the point you made where there are people who just stay together in a marriage long after it’s over….the marriage is done..the emotions are gone…so they have already moved on but just not physically or on paper–so perhaps they can just move on to another—I don’t know…it’s just too complicated… I guess–as in all things–it can work in some situations–some can move on–some cannot until the actual finalization of the divorce… it’s such an individual thing–circumstance….
February 27, 2010 at 6:37 pm
To all, very well said and I have been in the married but dating situation and it all turned bad… so my advice is just WAIT until the papers are signed HONESTLY!!! Not waiting causes a lot of bridges to be burned and its not worth it at the end.